The Why

For several months now people have asked why do we want to open the bed, breakfast, and bookstore. I often do things because something in my gut or some higher power tells me that it’s the right thing to do. If you had asked me six months ago that would have been my answer and to some degree it is still part of my why, but it is so much more than that now.

In the Air Force when I would brief about staying out of trouble and doing the right thing I would always ask the troops to look at their why. Why did they come in the service? Why do they do what they do everyday? Is it for your mother, your father, a sibling, a better life, or your sweetheart? I know my why while I have been in the service had always been my family, my country, my god, and my unit. I did what I did for them. To make them safe, proud, and happy.

So I asked they to remember their why whenever they came across a hard decision or some thing that would change or affect that why. If you made that choice could you explain it to your mother why you did and would she understand or condone it. If you could not tell her to her face why you made a Choice then you should not be doing it. Looking back at this I realized that I enjoy serving, not just in the military but I enjoy serving people. I also enjoy talking to the troops and learning about there life stories and where they came from. You could tell that listening and sharing helped to build connections with these young individuals who were just starting to adjust to being away from home.

So now as I look at the path I have traveled and the things I have enjoyed I have realized why I love the bed, breakfast, and bookstore and why I’m doing this. I’m doing this because I love to serve people and hear their stories. I get to serve them by listening to them and connecting with them. I get to serve them through a relaxing stay and delicious home cooked breakfast. And every life has a unique story just like every book I pick up.